Virginity until marriage is the source Ubikira mpaka ndoa ni chanzo ya ulimwengu wa maelewano

Ujumuishaji wa ubinadamu na heshima ya kweli ya uadilifu maadili, kisaikolojia, na kimwili ya kila mtu ya binadamu? Ndiyo.

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Wanawali mpaka Ndoa

Dk Z Halat, matibabu Epidemologia mshauri, noxologist: Sisi sote ni majirani katika kijiji yetu kimataifa.  Heshima umbali kati ya majirani ni kichocheo kwa uhusiano harmonisk. American An mwanafalsafa na logician Willard Van Orman Quine mara moja alisema hakuna ameonekana bila kitambulisho.  Kutokana na historia ya taifa langu na mtaalamu mwenyewe uzoefu wangu mimi kuthubutu na kuongeza:    utambulisho uadilifu huamua kuishi.  Heshima ya kweli kwa, kisaikolojia, na kimwili uadilifu maadili ya binadamu kila mtu ni hitaji kwa ajili ya haki za binadamu integration.The genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person is a prerequisite for the fair integration of humanity. Heshima ya kweli kwa, kisaikolojia, na kimwili uadilifu maadili ya binadamu kila mtu ni hitaji kwa ajili ya haki za binadamu integration.

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  Mission Statement Mission Statement

The mission of the Virgins until Marriage  -  Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union (acronym: VM) is to promote a universal value of virginity until marriage with the "VIRGINITY MATTERS!" Utume wa Wanawali mpaka Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya (kifupi: VM) ni kukuza thamani ya zima la ndoa na ubikira mpaka "ubikira ni muhimu!" slogan supported by an effective reward system action for virginity protection and by protest against abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins. kauli mbiu ya kusaidiwa na mfumo madhubuti action malipo kwa ajili ya ulinzi ubikira na kwa maandamano dhidi ya unyanyasaji, mateso na udhalilishaji wa mabikira. Virginity as the source of world's harmony preserves morals, saves lives, decreases morbidity, boosts self-esteem, enhances careers, opposes slavery, counteracts crime, strengthens families, empowers communities, spares funds and therefore should be protected by all means available and not to a lesser extent than those pitiful and deadly ideas that violate human rights of the young ones of both genders and rob them of their unrenewable assets for profiteering or sheer pervert amusement. Virginophobia, ie the irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against virginity or virgins should be condemned and penalized, as well as the damage due to robbery of virginity fully compensated. Ubikira kama chanzo cha wa amani duniani kulinda maadili, anaokoa maisha, itapungua maradhi, boosts kujiheshimu binafsi, huongeza kazi, mpinga utumwa, counteracts uhalifu, nguvu familia, kuwawezesha jamii, vipuri fedha na hivyo wanapaswa kulindwa kwa kila njia inapatikana na si kwa ajili ya kiasi mdogo kuliko amejaa na mauti mawazo wale wanaokiuka haki za binadamu ya vijana wale wa jinsia zote mbili na watu wa unrenewable kuwaibia mali zao kwa ajili ya kubatilisha au pumbao sheer profiteering. Virginophobia, yaani hofu irrational wa, chuki na, au ubaguzi dhidi ya ubikira au wasichana wanapaswa kuwa na hatia na penalized, pamoja na uharibifu kutokana na wizi wa ubikira kikamilifu fidia.

Rationale Sababu

VM offers normal people (the helpless youth, worried parents and frustrated spouses among others) and their leaders a crucial solution for three menaces threatening both continents that the Mediterranean Sea touches. VM hutoa watu wa kawaida (kwa vijana wanyonge, wazazi na wasiwasi na wanandoa imechanganyikiwa kati ya wengine) na viongozi wao ufumbuzi menaces tatu muhimu kwa ajili ya kutisha mabara wote kwamba Mediterranean Sea kumgusa. These are: demographic collapse, human rights violation, and disaster profiteering. Haya ni: kidemografia kuzimia, ukiukaji wa haki za binadamu, na maafa profiteering.

The epidemiological evidence is clear. Ushahidi epidemiological ni wazi. AIDS decimating Sub-Saharan Africa and chlamydiasis destroying fertility in Europe result from promiscuous voluntary activeness of one fifth of adults.  Themselves victims of human rights violation 'the walking sources of epidemics' proliferate their traumas and attack more and more young people of both genders. UKIMWI unaangamiza mwa Jangwa la Sahara Afrika na chlamydiasis kuharibu uzazi katika Ulaya matokeo ya hiari activeness promiscuous ya moja ya tano ya watu wazima. Waathirika wenyewe wa ukiukaji wa haki za binadamu 'ya vyanzo kutembea ya epidemics' proliferate traumas yao na uvamizi na vijana zaidi ya watu zaidi ya jinsia zote mbili. They are encouraged and easily excused by a news and entertainment industry hostile to universal values and supportive to mass disaster profiteers: pornography and prostitution business organizers, prophylaxis and treatment suppliers, and social structure disintegration instigators, agents of influence among them. Wao ni moyo na kwa urahisi radhi kwa habari na sekta ya burudani zima maadili mkono na maafa ya molekuli: pornography profiteers na biashara ya ukahaba, prophylaxis waandaaji na wauzaji na matibabu, muundo wa kijamii disintegration kwa instigators maadui, mawakala wa ushawishi miongoni mwao.

Those who lose their virginity early are more likely to have multiple sexual partners, fuel epidemics and social pathologies. Wale ambao kupoteza ubikira wao mapema ni uwezekano wa kuwa na wapenzi wengi wa kijinsia, epidemics mafuta na pathologies kijamii.

Those who fight virginity with mockery, ridicule, and scorn are responsible for all the revealed and hidden harm they do. Wale ambao kupambana na ubikira na kejeli kejeli, na dharau ni wajibu kwa wote wa wazi na siri madhara wao.

A common sense type preventive measure to physical and moral abuses of individuals that add to mass disasters caused by promiscuity is raising the “herd immunity”, as it is called in epidemiological jargon, by promotion of a universal value of virginity until marriage. A akili ya kawaida kuzuia kipimo kwa aina na ukiukwaji wa maadili ya kimwili ya watu binafsi kuongeza majanga ya molekuli unaosababishwa na promiscuity ni kuongeza "kundi kinga", kama ni kuitwa katika jargon epidemiological, na kukuza zima thamani ya ubikira mpaka ndoa. The VM mission priorities are endorsed by lessons learnt from African (ie South Africa, Uganda, Sierra Leone) and European (OURSELVES FOR OURSELVES Youth Peer Education Movement in Poland), experiences, as well as the SILVER RING THING program, which encourages young adults to remain as a virgin until marriage, until recently funded by the US federal government. Ujumbe wa vipaumbele VM ni utowaji na masomo ya kujifunza kutoka Afrika (yaani Afrika Kusini, Uganda, Sierra Leone) na Ulaya (wenyewe kwetu Youth Movement Elimu rika katika Poland), uzoefu, pamoja na mpango wa fedha Gonga kitu, ambayo inahamasisha vijana kubaki kama bikira mpaka ndoa, mpaka hivi karibuni unafadhiliwa na serikali ya shirikisho ya Marekani. Yes, we can! Ndiyo, tunaweza! In Africa and Europe now. Katika Afrika na Ulaya sasa.

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist Dk Z Halat, matibabu Epidemologia mshauri, noxologist

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Sexually Transmitted Disease Prevention Kuzuia Magonjwa ya zinaa
according to mainstream science of medical epidemiology kulingana na tawala sayansi ya Epidemologia matibabu
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Dr Halat's endless list of reasons to remain a virgin until marriage: Dr Halat kutokuwa na mwisho wa orodha ya sababu za kubaki na bikira mpaka ndoa:

Reason # 1 Sababu # 1

Be yourself, know your rights Kuwa wewe mwenyewe, kujua haki yako
and don't let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh na Mungu basi wanao kadhibisha kubadili ndani kipande cha nyama

Reason # 2 Sababu # 2
Be safe, know the risks Salama, kujua hatari
and don't invite deadly diseases to ruin your wala kukaribisha magonjwa ya mauti na uharibifu yako
and your future family's life na baadaye maisha ya familia yako

Reason # 3 Sababu # 3
Be reasonable, know what really works Kuwa nzuri, kujua kweli kazi

Reason # 4 Sababu # 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges Kuwa na kujiamini, kujua fursa yako

Reason # 5 Sababu # 5
Be secure, know the mutual committed love of husband and wife Amani, kuheshimiana kosa kujua upendo wa mume na mke

Reason # 6 Sababu # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes' arguments to outsmart them Be smart, kujua hila 'Mbweha hoja yao kwa outsmart

Reason # 7 Sababu # 7
Be assertive, know how to love yourself Kuwa kuthubutu, kujua jinsi ya upendo mwenyewe
so you know what pleases and hurts ili kujua amtakaye na machungu ya

Reason # 8 Sababu # 8
Be patient, know how to become top apple Kuwa na subira, mnajua kuwa juu apple

Reason # 9 Sababu # 9
Be steadfast,  know how to be faithful Kuwa imara, kujua jinsi ya kuwa waaminifu
to your past, present and future own self na za zamani, ya sasa na ya baadaye mwenyewe

Reason # 10 Sababu # 10
Be distinct,  know the difference Kuwa tofauti, kujua tofauti

Reason # 11 Sababu # 11
Be a winner, know better than losers Kuwa mshindi, mnajua zaidi khasiri

Reason # 12 Sababu # 12
Be supported, know how to find a helping hand Kusaidiwa, kujua jinsi ya kupata mkono kusaidia

Reason # 13 Sababu # 13

Be wise, know the essentials of a good life since knowledge is power Kuwa wenye hekima, kujua muhimu ya maisha bora tangu elimu ni nguvu

喜喜 ( 红双 喜 ) DOUBLE HAPPINESS 喜喜 (红双喜) Double Happiness

If you have reached this stage of physical and mental development that allows you to make an informed choice and if you are in a position to decide for yourself,  you may choose between a short-lasting pleasure with a casual lover or eternal happiness with a perfect lover – your spouse. Kama tumefikia hatua hii ya maendeleo ya kimwili na akili kwamba utapata kufanya uchaguzi habari na kama wewe ni katika nafasi ya kuamua mwenyewe, unaweza kuchagua kati ya muda mfupi na ya kudumu radhi kwa kawaida kupenda au furaha wa milele na kamilifu lover - wenzi wako.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS Uchaguzi ni wako

The experience of the most successful nation, shared with the rest of the world Uzoefu wa mafanikio zaidi taifa, pamoja na mengine ya dunia

by Lin Di na Lin Di

Lin Di Perfect Ghost 林笛 Lin Di Roho Perfect 林笛    完美鬼魂 完美鬼魂

专辑中文名 : 秘密花园的邂逅 专辑中文名:秘密花园的邂逅     歌手 : 林笛 歌手:林笛

Album Chinese Name: Secret Garden Encounter  Singer: Lin Di Albamu Kichina Jina: Secret Garden kukabiliana Singer: Lin Di

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该专辑中有两首歌， Perfect Ghost （完美鬼魂），说的是：上天给每个人安排了一个完美的恋人，但并不是每个人都能够遇到那个人。当人们爱 上了别人，那个原本属于他（她）的完美恋人就变成了鬼魂。有时候，或许还会相会在梦里，或许在现实中感到若然所失，莫名地惦记某个不知名的灵魂。这是秘密 花园的邂逅，不是每一分钟都会发生，不是每一步都能令人察觉，但只要你真诚地希望，一些美妙的事情就会出现 ...... 该 专辑中有两首歌, Roho Perfect (完 美鬼魂),说 的是:上 天给每个人安排了一个完美的恋人,但 并不是每个人都能够遇到那个人当.人 们爱上了别人,那 个原本属于他(她)的 完美就恋人变成了鬼魂有时候.,或 许还会相会在梦里,或 许在现实中感到若然所失,莫 名地惦记某个不知名的灵魂.这 是秘密花园的邂逅,不 是每一分钟都会发生,不 是每一步都能令人察觉,但 只要你真诚地希望,一 些美妙的事情就会出现 ......

The album has two songs, Perfect Ghost （完美鬼魂） that is: God gives everyone a perfect lover arranged, but not everyone can face that person.  When people fall in love with someone else, that originally belonged to him (her) the perfect lover becomes a ghost.  Sometimes, perhaps even meet in a dream, perhaps, in reality feel if I lost, but somehow misses the soul of an unknown. Albamu ina nyimbo mbili, Roho Perfect (完 美鬼魂) kuwa ni Mungu huwapa wote kwa lover kamili mpangilio, lakini si kila mtu anaweza uso kwamba mtu mwingine. Wakati watu kuanguka katika upendo na mtu, ambayo awali mali yake (yake) na kamilifu lover anakuwa roho waliopotea. Wakati mwingine, pengine hata kufikia katika ndoto, labda, kwa kweli najisikia kama mimi, lakini kwa namna fulani misses nafsi ya haijulikani ni. This is the secret garden of the encounter, not every minute will occur, not every step can be very aware of, but as long as you sincerely hope that some of the wonderful things that will appear ...... Hii ni siri ya kukutana na bustani, na sio kila dakika itatokea, si kila hatua unaweza kufahamu sana, lakini kwa muda wote kwa dhati matumaini kwamba baadhi ya mambo ya ajabu ambayo itaonekana ......

Album track 02: 喜 Happiness Albamu ya nyimbo 02: 喜 Happiness

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For the sake of the new millennium generations Kwa ajili ya mwezi vizazi milenia

The first new millennium born teens will celebrate their 13th birthday on January 1st, 2014. Milenia ya kwanza mwezi kuzaliwa vijana 13 kuadhimisha siku ya kuzaliwa mapenzi yao juu ya Januari 1, 2014. There are circa 1,500 days until January 1st, 2014. Many of the tens of millions of year 2001 born children have been already irreversibly infected and mutilated, tortured physically and mentally, robbed of their virginity and converted to sex toys of perverts. Kuna circa 1500 siku hadi Januari 1, 2014 mwaka. Wengi ya makumi ya mamilioni ya watoto 2,001 waliozaliwa kuwa tayari irreversibly kuambukizwa na mutilated, kuteswa kimwili na kiakili, kuiba na ubikira wao na kumgeukia leksaker jinsia ya perverts. But the vast majority are still waiting, unknowingly, for their chance to enter adulthood  spared from deadly disease and crippling disability. Lakini idadi kubwa bado ni kusubiri, unknowingly, kwa nafasi zao kuingia wazima hakuwahurumia kutoka ugonjwa mauti na ulemavu crippling. Within the 1,500 coming days, let us become people of good will who really try hard to initiate the great shift of consciousness for the sake of the new millennium generations. Katika siku zijazo 1,500, hebu kuwa watu wenye mapenzi mema ambao kwa kweli kujaribu vigumu kuanzisha na mabadiliko makubwa ya fahamu kwa ajili ya mwezi milenia vizazi.

Dear friends, Ndugu marafiki,

Below, please find public health arguments to convince yourself, your loved ones, others like you, and the rest of the world. Chini, tafadhali kupata hoja za afya ya umma na kuwashawishi mwenyewe, wapendwa wako wengine kama wewe, na wengine duniani.
Should you find your role in the VIRGINS UNTIL MARRIAGE -  CIVIL SOCIETY ORGANIZATION OF  THE AFRICAN UNION AND THE EUROPEAN UNION project promising/satisfying/profitable enough Je, wewe kupata nafasi yako katika Wasichana mpaka ndoa - asasi ya kiraia ya Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa mradi EUROPEISKA kuahidi / kuridhisha / faida ya kutosha , please do not hesitate, dear friends, to use social networking tools , Tafadhali usisite wapendwa, kwa kutumia zana mitandao ya kijamii ( Click to join Virgins_until_Marriage ). ( Bonyeza kujiunga Virgins_until_Marriage ).

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist Dk Z Halat, matibabu Epidemologia mshauri, noxologist
Project designer, Virgins until Marriage Mradi designer, Wasichana hadi Ndoa

Chairman, The John Snow International Society for Common Sense in Public Health Mwenyekiti, The Snow John International Society kwa akili za kawaida katika Afya ya Umma

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Epidemiology: Epidemologia:
the study (health surveys, observation, hypothesis testing, analytic research, and experiments) utafiti (tafiti za afya, uchunguzi, majaribio dhanio, utafiti, uchambuzi, na majaribio)
of the distribution (analysis by time, place, and classes of persons affected) wa usambazaji (uchambuzi na nyakati na ya mahali, na madarasa ya watu walioathirika)
and determinants (physical, biological, social, cultural, and behavioural factors that influence health) na determinants (ya kimwili, kibayolojia, kijamii, kitamaduni, na tabia sababu ya kuwa na ushawishi afya)
of health-related states or events (diseases, causes of death, behaviour such as promiscuity, other wa-kuhusiana na majimbo ya afya au matukio (magonjwa, sababu ya kifo, tabia kama vile promiscuity, wengine social pathologies, kijamii pathologies, reactions to preventive regimens) athari kwa regimens kuzuia)
in specified populations (identifiable characteristics such as precisely defined numbers) kwa watu maalum (sifa zinazotambulika kama vile just hufafanuliwa idadi)
and the application of this study to control health problems (to promote, protect, and restore health) na matumizi ya utafiti na udhibiti wa matatizo ya afya (kwa kukuza, kulinda, na kurejesha afya)
prof. Prof. J Last J Last

Noxology: Noxology:
Noxology, health hazards science, is a branch of epidemiology and is the scientific study of  harmful factors, taking into account a number of usually ignored aspects of the health hazards impact on humans, which include varied susceptibility of individuals (families, communities, nations) to a harmful factor acting alone or together with others, exhibiting a synergistic effects on health.  In noxology, the starting point of the diagnostic process is the cause of health-related states or events investigated on individual, family, community, national, or global level (compare: Posita causa, ponitur effectus and Nihil fit sine causa). Noxology, afya ya athari za sayansi, ni tawi la Epidemologia na ni utafiti wa kisayansi wa sababu za hatari, kuzingatia idadi ya kupuuzwa mambo ya kawaida ya athari za matokeo ya afya ya binadamu, ambayo ni pamoja mbalimbali susceptibility ya watu (familia, jamii, mataifa) kwa sababu madhara kutenda peke yake au pamoja na wengine, kuonyesha synergistic athari ya afya ya kimataifa. Katika noxology, kuanzia ya uhakika diagnostiksamarbetet ya mchakato ni sababu afya kuhusiana na wa majimbo au matukio ya uchunguzi juu ya mtu binafsi, familia, jamii, taifa, au ngazi (kulinganisha: Posita causa, effectus ponitur na Nihil fit sine causa).
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Dr Halat's endless list of reasons to remain a virgin until marriage Dr Halat kutokuwa na mwisho wa orodha ya sababu za kubaki na bikira mpaka ndoa

Reason # 1 Sababu # 1
Be yourself, know your rights and don't let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh. Kuwa wewe mwenyewe, kujua haki yako na Mungu basi wanao kadhibisha kubadili ndani kipande cha nyama.

A universal value of virginity until marriage is a spiritual obligation of two major world religions which are declared by more than half of citizens of the member countries of the African Union and the European Union (African population: 45.8% Muslims, 15.3% Roman Catholics; non-Eastern European population: 54.8% Roman Catholics, 4.3% Muslims), therefore a fundamental human right, freedom of religion of Muslims, Catholics, and any of affected spiritual minorities living on the territory of the two blocks is undoubtedly violated in all instances of abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins, virginophobia, and robbery of virginity. A thamani zima ya ubikira mpaka ndoa ni wajibu wa kiroho wa dini mbili kubwa duniani ambazo alisema kwa zaidi ya nusu ya raia wa nchi wanachama wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya (Afrika ya idadi ya watu: 45.8% Waislamu, Wakatoliki wa Kirumi 15.3%; zisizo za Ulaya ya Mashariki ya idadi ya watu: 54.8% Wakatoliki wa Kirumi, 4.3% Waislamu), hiyo ni haki ya msingi ya binadamu, uhuru wa dini ya Waislamu, Wakatoliki, na yeyote wa kiroho walioathirika wachache wanaoishi eneo la vitalu mbili bila shaka ni vunja katika matukio yote wa dhuluma, mateso na udhalilishaji wa mabikira, virginophobia, na wizi wa ubikira. Universal declarations of human rights provide a range of tools to protect  physical, moral and psychological integrity of virgins, regardless of religion or beliefs. maazimio ya haki za binadamu Universal kutoa vifaa mbalimbali ya kulinda mwili, maadili na uadilifu kisaikolojia ya wasichana, bila kujali dini au imani. Human rights law provides the international standards to make judgments about individual responsibility for their violation. more Sheria ya haki za binadamu hutoa viwango vya kimataifa kufanya hukumu juu ya wajibu kwa ukiukaji yao binafsi. zaidi

Dehumanization by coercion and Pavlovian conditioning. Dehumanization kwa kutumia nguvu na hali Pavlovian.
God deniers use coercion and Pavlovian conditioning to deprive you Mungu wanao kadhibisha matumizi ya kutumia nguvu na hali Pavlovian na kuwanyima wewe
of physical, moral and psychological integrity of human person. wa mwili, maadili na uadilifu kisaikolojia ya binadamu.
Be yourself, do not let them transform you into a piece of flesh. Kuwa wewe mwenyewe, si lazima wao kubadili ndani kipande cha nyama.

Reason # 2 Sababu # 2
Be safe, know the risks Salama, kujua hatari

and don't invite deadly diseases wala mauti kukaribisha magonjwa
to ruin your and your future family's life. uharibifu yako na familia ya baadaye ya maisha yako.

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) mostly go unnoticed until it is too late and the consequences of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) become incurable. Magonjwa ya zinaa (STIs) zaidi kwenda unnoticed mpaka ni kuchelewa mno na matokeo ya kuambukizwa magonjwa ya zinaa (STD) kuwa incurable. Asking questions “Do you have AIDS, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, herpes, trichomonas, candida, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, CMV infection, genital warts (including these types that  cause cervical cancer), and the like?” makes no sense since infected people simply have no idea what they carry and transmit to others. Kuuliza maswali "Je, una ukimwi, Kisonono, chlamydia, kaswende, malengelenge, trichomonas, candida, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, CMV ukimwi, viungo vya uzazi (pamoja na aina hizo kusababisha kansa ya kizazi), na kadhalika?" Hufanya hakuna maana tangu watu walioathirika tu sielewi nini hubeba na kusambaza kwa watu wengine. Only a doctor can diagnose an STI, because the signs and symptoms of STDs vary and overlap  with symptoms of other STDs and all other diseases. Daktari tu anaweza diagnose ya magonjwa ya zinaa, kwa sababu ya ishara na dalili za magonjwa ya zinaa inatofautiana na hufunika pamoja na dalili za magonjwa ya zinaa na magonjwa mengine yote. It may create a sense of false security asking “Have you been tested for HIV/AIDS?” since an infected person can transmit HIV during the window period, which is the time from getting infected until a blood test can detect any change. Inaweza kuleta hali ya usalama wa uongo kuuliza "Je, umekuwa kupima VVU / UKIMWI"? Tangu mtu kuambukizwa wanaweza kusambaza virusi vya ukimwi wakati wa kipindi cha dirisha, ambayo ni ya muda kutokana na kuambukizwa mpaka mtihani damu unaweza kugundua mabadiliko yoyote. Much more effective would be avoiding risks of deadly diseases by following, if possible, the strict rules of The UK National Blood Service which say plainly who can't give blood . Ufanisi zaidi itakuwa kuepuka hatari ya magonjwa ya mauti kwa kufuata, kama ikiwezekana sheria kali ya Taifa ya Uingereza Huduma damu ambayo kusema waziwazi ambao hawawezi kutoa damu. Those who can't give blood because they are or might be infected with HIV, hepatitis B, C and/or syphilis etc. can't be regarded as safe and might be   held liable for passing an STI to a virgin unaware of risky behaviours of his or her partner. more Wale ambao hawawezi kutoa damu kwa sababu wao ni au anaweza kuambukizwa na HIV, hepatitis B, C na / au kaswende nk haiwezi kuonekana kama salama na inaweza kuwa kuhusishwa kwa kupita na magonjwa ya zinaa kwa msichana mwenye kughafilika na tabia hatari ya mpenzi wake au wake. zaidi

Afro-European Sexually Transmitted Diseases Afro-European magonjwa ya zinaa
Prevention Network Prevention Network
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Reason # 3 Sababu # 3
Be reasonable, know what really works. Kuwa nzuri, kujua kweli kazi.

Higher levels of family religiosity, including parents' beliefs, prayer and religious service practices, and the frequency of family participation in religious activities,  contribute to decreased sexual initiation among adolescents, older age at coitarche and indirectly to decreased sexual partners. wa ngazi ya familia religiosity, ikiwa ni pamoja na wazazi imani, 'sala na matendo ya kidini, huduma na mzunguko wa familia ya kushiriki katika dini, kuchangia shughuli ya Juu na ngono kufundwa ilipungua kati ya vijana, umri mkubwa katika coitarche na moja kwa moja kwa ilipungua wapenzi. Having a two-parent family and parents who encourage their children to avoid having sex are also associated with a decrease in sexual exposures. Abstinence programs encourage unmarried individuals to abstain from sexual activity as the best and only certain way to protect themselves from exposure to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Kuwa na-mzazi familia mbili na wazazi ambao kuhimiza watoto wao ili kuepuka ngono pia kuhusishwa na upungufu katika exponeringar ngono. Kuacha mipango ya kuhimiza olewa watu kuacha shughuli ya ngono bora na njia fulani tu kulinda wenyewe kutoka yatokanayo na virusi vya ukimwi na mengine ya zinaa na maambukizi. Abstinence until marriage programs are particularly important for young people, as approximately half of all new infections occur in the 15- to 24-year-old age group.  Delaying first sexual encounter can have a significant impact on the health and well-being of adolescents and on the progress of the epidemic in communities.  The younger people are when having sex for the first time, the more susceptible they become to developing an STD. Kuacha mpaka ndoa programu ni muhimu sana hasa kwa vijana, kama karibu nusu ya mwezi maambukizo yote kutokea katika 15 - na umri wa miaka 24 umri vijana. Kuchelewesha ngono kwanza kukutana nayo inaweza kuwa na athari kubwa kwa afya na ustawi wa na juu ya maendeleo ya janga katika jamii STD. mdogo ni wakati wa watu kufanya ngono kwa mara ya kwanza, wao wanahusika zaidi kuwa na maendeleo ya. The risk of acquiring an STD also increases with the number of partners over a lifetime. Immaturity of the cervix of the womb in teenagers and young women means that its protective barrier is weak and only 1 cell thick (30 - 40 cells thick in older women). Hatari ya kupata magonjwa ya zinaa na pia kuongezeka kwa idadi ya washirika juu ya maisha ya wanawake. Ukomavu wa mlango wa tumbo kwa vijana wadogo na kwa maana hiyo kinga kizuizi yake ni dhaifu na tu 1 kiini nene (30-40 seli nene katika wanawake wakubwa ). During sexual intercourse germs causing STIs get easily inoculated into the immature cervix. Wakati wa kingono ngono kupata wadudu na kusababisha magonjwa ya zinaa kwa urahisi wasiokomaa inoculated katika mfuko wa uzazi. This is why non virgin girls under the age of 20 have higher rates of infection of HIV than older women or young men. Hii ni kwa nini wasichana bikira zisizo chini ya umri wa miaka 20 na zaidi viwango vya maambukizi ya virusi vya ukimwi kuliko wanawake wazee au vijana. AIDS (caused by HIV), cervical cancer (caused by high-risk HPVs types 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, and 73 ), infertility, ectopic pregnancy and other complications of pelvic inflammatory disease (caused by chlamydial and other STIs) constitute a price of sexual intercourses under the age of 20. UKIMWI (unaosababishwa na virusi vya ukimwi), kansa ya mlango wa kizazi (unaosababishwa na-hatari HPVs aina high 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, na 73), kutokutungisha , ectopic mimba na matatizo mengine ya ugonjwa inflammatory pelvic (unaosababishwa na magonjwa ya zinaa na wengine chlamydial) kuanzisha bei ya intercourses ngono chini ya umri wa miaka 20. Montse Magadan became HIV positive when she lost her virginity, aged 16.  Prevention of cervical cancer can be achieved in one of two ways: preventing infection initially or detecting the precursors to cervical cancer and providing treatment. Montse Magadan kuwa virusi vya ukimwi wakati yeye kupotea ubikira wake, wenye umri wa miaka 16. Kuzuia kansa ya kizazi inaweza kupatikana katika moja ya njia mbili: awali au kuzuia maambukizi ya kuchunguza precursors wa kansa ya kizazi na kutoa matibabu. The former method is called primary prevention and can be accomplished by avoiding exposure to the virus through abstinence from sexual activity or through  mutual monogamy forever, provided both partners—not just one—are consistently monogamous and were not previously infected. Utaratibu wa zamani aitwaye msingi kuzuia na inaweza kutimia kwa kuepuka yatokanayo na virusi vya ukimwi kutoka kwa kuacha shughuli za ngono au kupitia monogamy kuheshimiana milele, mradi washirika wote-siyo tu mmoja ni mfululizo monogamous na si awali walikuwa wameambukizwa. Condoms provide only about 70% protection against HPV when used all of the time. more Uzazi wa kutoa 70% tu kuhusu kinga dhidi ya HPV wakati kutumika wakati wote. zaidi

Manufactured sex toys can be cleansed. leksaker ngono viwandani anaweza kutakaswa. To some extent. Kwa kiasi fulani.
Human sex toys can't be cleansed. leksaker ngono Binadamu hawezi kuwa safi. No way. Hakuna njia.

Reason # 4 Sababu # 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges. Kuwa na kujiamini, kujua fursa yako.

There is a large time gap between puberty and maturity. Kuna wakati pengo kubwa kati ya kubalehe na ukomavu. All of us are born as virgins but normal people do not dispute over virginity of newborns. The same normal people cast doubts on the value of virginity of immature teenagers who have not reached this stage of physical and mental development that allows them to make an informed choice. Sisi wote ni mtoto kama wanawali lakini watu wa kawaida wala ubishi juu ya ubikira wa watoto wanaozaliwa kufanya. Huo huo watu wa kawaida kutupwa mashaka juu ya thamani ya ubikira wasiokomaa ya vijana ambao kufikiwa hatua hii ya mwili na akili ya maendeleo ambayo inaruhusu wao wa habari uchaguzi. Immature young people are privileged by laws protecting their undisturbed development and should be aware of their privileges since convicted pedophiles who rape minors and condemned ephebophiles who ruin lives of mid-to-late adolescents are just the tip of the iceberg of those who persuade, induce, entice, or coerce minor children and adolescents to engage in activities which shorten the inborn stage of virginity. Wasiokomaa vijana ni bahati na sheria kulinda undisturbed maendeleo yao na watambue marupurupu yao tangu hatia paedophiles ubakaji watoto walio na hatia ephebophiles ambao uharibifu maisha ya-ya-mwishoni mwa vijana mid ni haki ya ncha ya barafu ya wale kumshawishi, Sukutua , entice, au watoto coerce madogo na vijana ili kushiriki katika shughuli förkorta hatua inborn ya ubikira. Legal protection of virginity is nothing but a minimum national effort granted to virgins to protect their human rights and in fact legitimatises cruel exploitation of those young people who in spite of having reached the age of consent are still far (5 and many more years ahead) from being physically, mentally, and socially ready to take responsibility for their choices. Ulinzi wa kisheria wa ubikira ila ni juhudi ya taifa chini uliotolewa kwa wasichana na kulinda haki zao za binadamu na kwa kweli legitimatises unyonyaji ukatili wa vijana wale ambao licha ya kuwa na kufikia umri wa kukubali bado ni mbali (5 na watu wengi zaidi miaka ijayo) kutoka kuwa kimwili, kiakili, na kijamii tayari kuchukua jukumu kwa uchaguzi wao. Sound families, communities and nations strive to protect all developmental stages of their teenagers and young adults and support protection of virginity until marriage. Sound familia, jamii na mataifa bidii kulinda maendeleo hatua zote za vijana wao na vijana na kinga ya msaada wa ubikira mpaka ndoa. These efforts are being undermined by discreditors of virginity who simply surrender to the culture of rape. juhudi hizi ni kuwa negativt na discreditors ya ubikira ambao tu Waislamu na utamaduni wa ubakaji. Here is an example of counterproductive reasoning: “Another harmful cultural belief that makes women vulnerable to contracting HIV is the value placed on virginity. Hapa ni mfano wa mawazo counterproductive: "mwingine madhara utamaduni imani kwamba inafanya wanawake walio katika mazingira magumu ya kuambukizwa VVU ni thamani kuwekwa kwenye ubikira. In some cultures, people believe that if a man has sex with a virgin woman, he will be cleansed of his infections. Katika tamaduni zingine, watu wanaamini kwamba kama mtu ana mapenzi na mwanamke bikira, atakuwa safi ya maambukizi yake. Young, virgin girls and women are at a higher risk of being raped by men influenced by this common misperception. Vijana, wasichana na wanawake bikira ni katika hatari kubwa zaidi ya kuwa kubakwa na watu wamevutiwa na kawaida misperception huu. These girls and women are especially vulnerable to HIV because of the distinct injuries that result from forced sexual activity and the likelihood that their perpetrators have had multiple sexual partners.” more Hawa wasichana na wanawake ni hasa katika mazingira magumu na virusi vya ukimwi kwa sababu ya tofauti na majeraha yanayotokana na shughuli za kulazimishwa ngono na uwezekano wa wahusika yao alikuwa ngono wapenzi wengi ". zaidi

I'ma teen. I'ma teen. Its obvious, I'ma virgin. dhahiri, I'ma bikira yake.

WORLD DAY DUNIANI SIKU
FOR THE PREVENTION KINGA YA YA
OF VIOLENCE AGAINST VIRGINS Wa unyanyasaji dhidi ya wasichana
18th November 18 Novemba

Blessed Carolina Kozka Heri Carolina Kozka
(Polish: Karolina Kózkówna) (Kipoland: Karolina Kózkówna)
(1898 - 1914) (1898 - 1914)

In the midst of the storm of the First World War, when she was only sixteen she sacrificed her life to God, killed by a Russian soldier as she resisted his advances. The war broke out in July 1914. Katikati ya dhoruba ya Vita ya Kwanza ya Dunia, wakati yeye alikuwa kumi na sita tu yeye sadaka maisha yake kwa Mungu, aliuawa na askari Kirusi kama yeye upinzani maendeleo yake. Vita vilipoanza katika Julai 1914. In November the Russian army cleared the Vistula River. Katika Novemba jeshi Kirusi akalipa Mto Vistula. On November 10 they captured Tarnow and on November 17 they captured Zabawa and Wal-Ruda. Tarehe 10 Novemba wao alitekwa Tarnow na tarehe 17 Novemba wao alitekwa Zabawa na Wal-Ruda. The situation was getting dangerous; there were threats of confiscations so people were trying to hide their properties in the forest. Hali hiyo ilikuwa kupata hatari, kuna tishio la confiscations hivyo watu walikuwa wanajaribu kuficha mali zao katika misitu. Everyone was telling about Russian soldiers who were raping young women. Kila mtu alikuwa akiwaambia juu ya askari Kirusi ambao walikuwa raping wanawake vijana. Everyone was terrified. Kila mmoja alikuwa na hofu.

At the first day of occupation a soldier came to Kozka's house but he left after having a meal. Katika siku ya kwanza ya kazi askari walifika ya nyumba kushoto Kozka lakini baada ya mlo. The next day, on November 18, at about 9 am another armed Russian soldier came to their house. Siku ya pili, juu ya Novemba 18, saa kuhusu 09:00 mwingine silaha Kirusi askari walifika nyumbani kwao. He asked about the Austrian army, he refused to have a meal and told Karolina and her father to go with them, allegedly to the commanding officer. Aliuliza kuhusu Austria jeshi, alikataa kuwa na chakula na aliiambia Karolina na baba yake kwenda pamoja nao, madai ya askari wa jeshi. He led them towards the forest but when they reached the edge of it, the soldier told Karolina's father to leave them and go back home. Akawaongoza kuelekea msituni lakini walipo fika makali ya hayo, askari wa habari wa baba yao Karolina kuondoka na kurudi nyumbani. The terrorized man turned back, leaving his daughter alone with soldier. Mtu terrorized akageuka nyuma, na kuacha binti yake peke yake, na askari. The witnesses of the imminent events were two boys coming back towards the village. Ya mashahidi wa matukio imminent wavulana wawili kurudi kuelekea kijiji. They hid themselves behind the bushes and saw Karolina struggling with an assailant and running towards the swamps that turned out to be the rescue for her as they made the chase difficult for the soldier. Wao wakajificha nyuma ya misitu na kuona Karolina zinakabiliwa na assailant ni na mbio mbio mabwawa ya kwamba aligeuka kuwa wa dharura kwa ajili yake kama alifanya baada ya vigumu kwa askari huyo. He abandoned the chase when he saw that she fall dead of loss of blood. Yeye kutelekezwa na baada ya alipoona kwamba yeye kuanguka maiti ya kupoteza damu. Her body was found only on December 4. mwili wake alionekana Desemba 4 tu. The wounds she sustained do bear witness to the greatness of her suffering and show her heroic defence of her innocence and purity. Endelevu ya majeraha yeye kufanya kushuhudia ukuu wa mateso yake na kuonyesha heroic utetezi wake wa hatia yake na usafi. A carefully prepared report describes thoroughly the place of her martyrdom and claims the intact virginity of the Martyr. A tayari kwa makini ripoti inaeleza kwa undani katika nafasi ya kuuawa Shahidi yake na madai ya ubikira intact ya shahidi. Having imitated Christ already in her life, and always obedient to the will of God, in the last moments of her life she refused to sin and accepted her own death as the greatest  confirmation of her love of God. Baada ya Kristo imitated tayari katika maisha yake, na daima utii na mapenzi ya Mungu, kwa mara ya mwisho wakati wa maisha yake yeye alikataa dhambi na kukubaliwa na wenyewe kifo chake kama mkuu uthibitisho wa upendo wake wa Mungu. Thus Karolina was conformed to Christ in the shedding of her blood. Karolina hivyo alikuwa kufanana na Kristo katika kumwaga damu yake. (...) On June 30, 1986 in the presence of Pope John Paul II, the "decree of the martyrdom of the Servant of God, Karolina Kozka" was proclaimed. (...) On 30 Juni 1986 mbele ya Papa John Paul II, amri "ya kuuawa Shahidi kwa mtumishi wa Mungu, Karolina Kozka" alikuwa anahubiri. Her beatification took place on June 10, 1987, during the third pastoral visit of His Holiness to his native country, Poland. beatification wake ulifanyika tarehe 10 Juni 1987, wakati wa ziara ya kichungaji ya tatu ya utakatifu wake na nchi yake ya asili, Poland. Since then the cult of the Blessed Karolina is spreading all over the world.  (...) Her relics were procured by numerous communities in USA, Kazakhstan, Peru, Chad, and Congo and many churches in Poland as well. Tangu wakati wa ibada ya Karolina Heri kueneza duniani kote sanduku. Wake (...) walikuwa procured na jumuiya nyingi katika Marekani, Kazakhstan, Peru, Chad, na Congo na makanisa mengi katika Poland pia. She is the patron saint of the Diocese of Rzeszów as well as many parishes. Yeye ni mtakatifu mlinzi wa Dayosisi ya Rzeszów pamoja na parokia nyingi. The Blessed Karolina is regarded by most of people, parishioners and pilgrims as well, as the great example to people of the Third Millennium because of her humility, courage and trust in God. Heri Karolina ni kumjali na zaidi ya watu, parishioners na wakimbizi na pia, kama mfano mkubwa watu wa Milenia ya Tatu kwa sababu ya unyenyekevu wake, ujasiri na matumaini katika Mungu. She is a sign for those who are looking for the way of salvation, who want to become a saint. Yeye ni ishara kwa watu ambao ni kutafuta njia ya wokovu, ambao wanataka kuwa mtakatifu. She is the patron of youths and farmers. more Karolina Kozka life's story Yeye ni rafiki wa vijana na wakulima. Kozka zaidi maisha ya hadithi Karolina

Reason # 5 Sababu # 5

Be secure, know Amani, kujua the mutual committed wa pamoja wa kosa
love of husband and wife. upendo wa mume na mke.

Apart from its holistic, spiritual, and emotional context, for men and women marriage means knowing what to expect, belonging to one's self-formed family, rasing happy children, and being helped in need. Licha ya jumla, kiroho, na kihisia mazingira, kwa wanaume na wanawake ndoa njia kujua nini kutarajia, mali ya binafsi ya sumu familia moja, watoto rasing furaha, na kuwa alisaidia katika mahitaji.

The most important part of a Catholic wedding is the exchange of vows: Sehemu muhimu sana ya harusi Katoliki ni kubadilishana viapo:
Groom: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my wife. Groom: Mimi (jina), kuchukua wewe, (jina), kuwa mke wangu. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. Mimi ahadi kuwa ni kweli na wewe katika nyakati nzuri na mbaya, katika magonjwa na afya. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life. I atakupendeni na heshima wewe siku zote za maisha yangu.

  Bride: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my husband. Bibiarusi: Mimi (jina), kuchukua wewe, (jina), kwa kuwa mume wangu. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. Mimi ahadi kuwa ni kweli na wewe katika nyakati nzuri na mbaya, katika magonjwa na afya. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life. I atakupendeni na heshima wewe siku zote za maisha yangu.

Muslim couples do not generally recite vows but rather listen to the words of the imam, or cleric, who speaks about the significance of the commitment of the marriage and the couple's responsibilities toward each other and Allah.  However, some Muslim brides and grooms do choose to also exchange vows: Waislamu wawili kufanya kwa ujumla soma nadhiri bali kusikiliza maneno ya imamu, au mshemanzi, ambaye anazungumza juu ya umuhimu wa kujitolea wa ndoa na wanandoa wa majukumu kwa kila mmoja na Mwenyezi Mungu. Hata hivyo, baadhi ya bibi arusi Waislamu na grooms kufanya kuchagua na pia kubadilishana viapo:

Bride: "I, (name), offer you myself in marriage and in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Koran and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and with sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful wife." Bibiarusi: "I, (jina), kutoa wewe mwenyewe katika ndoa na kwa mujibu wa maelekezo ya Qur'ani Mtakatifu na Mtume Mtakatifu, amani na baraka juu yake. Mimi dhamana, kwa uaminifu na kwa moyo wa dhati, kwa kuwa kwenu ni mke mtiifu na mwaminifu. "

Groom: "I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you a faithful and helpful husband." Groom: "Mimi dhamana, kwa uaminifu na usafi, kwa kuwa ninyi ni mwaminifu na mume kusaidia."

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VIRGINITY UNTIL MARRIAGE Ubikira mpaka ndoa
FRESHNESS SAFETY CAPS USALAMA FRESHNESS kofia

Virginity until marriage freshness safety caps: open with marriage vow Ubikira mpaka ndoa freshness usalama caps: na kufungua ndoa kiapo

Reason # 6 Sababu # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes' tricks Be smart, kujua hila 'Mbweha Tricks ya
to outsmart them. kwa outsmart yao.

Virgins seem easy prey for mischievous predators who exploit ruthlessly fundamental human needs of love, respect, intimacy and belonging, as well as strong sexual urges in minors, adolescents and not-yet-married adults.  A simple trick like hugging, especially for women, releases neurochemicals that can increase trust in the hugger. Wasichana kuonekana mawindo rahisi kwa predators mischievous ambaye kutumia ukatili mahitaji ya msingi ya binadamu upendo heshima,, urafiki na mali, pamoja na nguvu ya ngono wito kwa watoto, vijana na-bado-ndoa si watu wazima. A hila rahisi kama kukumbatia, hasa kwa wanawake, releases neurochemicals ambayo yanaweza kuongeza uaminifu katika hugger ya. After a hug lasting 20 seconds, the brain produces oxytocin that turns on the trust response and dulls more critical judgment.  Touching on the shoulder, the side of the waist, arms or hands plays a similar role in seduce tactics. Baada ya kudumu kumkumbatia sekunde 20, ubongo hutoa oxytocin kwamba anarudi mwitikio wa imani na dulls muhimu zaidi hukumu bega. Kuhusu tarehe, upande wa kiuno, mikono au mikono ina jukumu sawa katika kuwapotosha mbinu. Generous compliments, series of jokes, humour, funny stories, suddenly discovered common interests and hobbies, all may lead to infatuation and its grave consequences. Ukarimu pongezi, mfululizo wa utani, ucheshi, hadithi funny, ghafla waligundua manufaa ya pamoja na changamko, wote kusababisha infatuation na kaburi matokeo yake. Experienced seducers view their victims as nothing but sex toys. Wadanganyifu uzoefu waathirika maoni yao kama kitu lakini leksaker ngono. They even pretend to be passionately in love with their prey until they get bored and find an easy excuse to cease  the relationship. Hata kujifanya kuwa passionately katika upendo na mawindo yao mpaka kupata kuchoka na kupata udhuru rahisi kusitisha uhusiano. The everlasting love suggestions and promises prove deceitful soon after the virgin gives up her irrenewable asset. Upendo wa milele mapendekezo na ahadi za uongo baada ya kuthibitisha bikira anatoa up irrenewable mali yake. Virginity robbing from immature virgins and virginity stealing from mature but still naive virgins are common crimes of deception which almost never get punished and redressed. Ubikira kuiba kutoka wasichana wasio kuwa na akili na ubikira kuiba kutoka kukomaa lakini bado wasichana wasiojua ni makosa ya kawaida ya udanganyifu ambao karibu kamwe kupata adhabu na redressed. Cunning foxes triumph over their victims with great self-satisfaction and are applauded by other human rights violators. Mbweha hila ushindi juu ya waathirika wao na vifaa-kuridhika sana na ni lovordade kwa wahasiriwa wa haki za binadamu wengine. Some serial devirginators use comically ridiculous arguments to manipulate their victims. Baadhi devirginators Serial kutumia hoja ridiculous comically na kuendesha waathirika yao. Probably most stupid is here: “Humans are no better than other animals and hence can't resist animal instincts". Someone who can't tell the difference between humans and animals is a soul denier and is far more wrong than hymen deniers, since a congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare as a part of severe genital  malformations (ICD -10: Q52.0   Congenital absence of vagina, Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva). Judging 'better' humans or animals, forgetting elaborated courtship rituals in animals, not realizing differences in brain size and functioning of humans and bonobo chimpanzees says a lot about those who use such arguments to take the virginity of the human person. Luckily, mature virgins are smarter and know how to dismiss such as nonsense. Smart virgins know the science behind gender dimorphism which is physical and behavioral differences associated with sex. more Pengine ni wajinga wengi hapa: "Binadamu si bora kuliko wanyama wengine na hivyo hawezi kupinga silika za wanyama" wanyama. Mtu ambaye hatujui tofauti kati ya binadamu na ni denier nafsi na ni vibaya zaidi kuliko wanao kadhibisha kizinda, tangu na kutokuwepo congenital ya kipekee kizinda hutokea, hata hivyo ni nadra sana kama sehemu ya uzazi inaweza kusababisha ulemavu kali (ICD -10: Q52.0 Congenital bila ya uke, Q52.7 Congenital bila ya vulva) kusahau. Usihukumu 'bora' binadamu au wanyama, alifafanua uchumba mila katika wanyama, wala kutambua tofauti katika kawaida ubongo na kazi ya binadamu na sokwe bonobo anasema mengi kuhusu wale ambao wanatumia hoja hiyo kuchukua ubikira ya binadamu mtu. Kwa bahati, wasichana kukomaa ni smartare na kujua jinsi ya kumfukuza kama vile yasiyo na msingi. Smart wanawali kujua sayansi nyuma dimorphism jinsia ambayo ni ya kimwili na tabia tofauti yanayohusiana na ngono. zaidi

Virginity and devirginization: Ubikira na devirginization:
first sexual intercourse is the most memorable milestone kujamiiana kwanza ni hatua ya kukumbukwa zaidi
of human development from birth to death ya maendeleo ya binadamu kuanzia kuzaliwa hadi kufa

If you loved me truly you'd wait until we're married. Kama mimi kweli nakupenda wewe I'd kusubiri hadi tuko ndoa.

Reason # 7 Sababu # 7
Be assertive, know how to love yourself Kuwa kuthubutu, kujua jinsi ya upendo mwenyewe
so you know what pleases and hurts. ili kujua amtakaye na inaumiza.

Do people hate you, humiliate you, ridicule you? Je, watu kuwachukia ninyi, kumfedhehesha wewe, maskhara wewe? That's not important. Hilo si muhimu. God loves you! Mungu anakupenda! There are at least two reasons why God loves you so much. Kuna angalau wawili sababu Mungu anapenda sana. First, it is His nature to love. Kwanza, ni tabia yake ya upendo. God is love. Mungu ni upendo. Love is the word that best describes God's nature. Upendo ni neno bora inafafanua wa hali ya Mungu. Second, you are His creation. Pili, wewe ni uumbaji wake. God loves you just as good earthly parents love their offspring. Mungu anakupenda kama mema hapa duniani upendo wazazi watoto wao. People may not seem very special to others, but to their mother and father they are always special. This should help you understand how God could really like you -- even though you may not like yourself very much. Watu wanaweza kuonekana maalum sana kwa wengine, lakini kwa mama zao na baba ni daima maalum sana. Hii kukusaidia kuelewa jinsi Mungu inaweza kweli kama wewe - hata ingawa unaweza si kama wewe sana. Also, God sees you as you can be and will become - not just as you are now. Pia, Mungu anaona wewe kama unaweza kuwa na kuwa - si tu kama wewe ni sasa. God has faith in you and in His ability to make you someone special. Mungu na ana imani na wewe na kwa uwezo wake ili uwe mtu wa pekee. Feeling not good enough?  Don't panic. Hisia haitoshi hofu? Je, si. God doesn't love you because you are a good person or do everything right. Mungu hana upendo kwa sababu wewe ni mtu mzuri au kufanya kila kitu sahihi. If you have accepted merciful God, nothing can separate you from His love. Kama una kukubaliwa Mungu mwenye huruma, hakuna kitu wanaweza tofauti na upendo wake. Due to God's mercy, even your sins can't separate you from God. Kutokana na huruma ya Mungu, hata dhambi yako haiwezi tofauti kutoka kwa Mungu. We all sin. Sisi wote dhambi. We all are forgiven if we confess and repent our sins, and want to do everything in our power to redress the past. Sisi wote ni makosa kama sisi kukiri na kutubu dhambi zetu, na wanataka kufanya kila kitu katika uwezo wetu kurekebisha ya zamani. In return, you are obliged to  love all the people  and treat other people the way that you would want to be treated. Kwa malipo, wewe ni wajibu wa watu wote upendo na kuwatendea watu wengine kwa njia ambayo wewe unavyotaka kuhudumiwa. God is the All-Peace, the All-Merciful.  God loves you, but do you love yourself?  No one is going to love you if you don't love yourself.  It is not your fault if you don't love yourself and you can't love other people, and because of it no one loves you. Mungu ni wa wote-Amani, na Mwenye kurehemu. Mungu anawapenda ninyi, lakini je, upendo mwenyewe mwenyewe No? Mmoja anaenda upendo wewe kama huna upendo na. Ni lako si kosa kama huna upendo mwenyewe huwezi kupenda watu wengine, na kwa sababu ya hiyo hakuna mtu anakupenda. Many of us have been taught to hate ourselves, to consider ourselves less equal and to think our needs are not important—just by the very act of abuse. Wengi wetu wamefundishwa na chuki wenyewe, kwa kuzingatia wenyewe chini sawa na kufikiria mahitaji yetu ni muhimu-siyo tu kwa kitendo sana wa unyanyasaji. The act of neglect, of sexual or physical abuse, and of ritual abuse all carry the message that we weren't worthy of loving, compassionate treatment. Kitendo cha kuacha, au kimwili unyanyasaji wa kijinsia, na sherehe zote za unyanyasaji kubeba ujumbe kwamba hawakuwa wanastahili, huruma matibabu upendo. If we received verbal or emotional abuse that told us even more overtly that we were worthless, trash, or to be hated, well, those messages just piled up inside. Kama sisi kupokea matusi au kihisia kwamba alituambia overtly zaidi kwamba sisi tulikuwa hauna maana, takataka, au kwa kuwa kuchukia, vizuri, wale ujumbe tu piled up ndani. Abusers often foster or encourage self-hate messages, because it makes their victims more compliant and easy to abuse. Mara nyingi Abusers kuendeleza au kuhimiza-hate ujumbe binafsi, kwa sababu inafanya waathirika yao inafanya inavyotakikana na rahisi zaidi kwa unyanyasaji. ...but those messages aren't true. ... Lakini wale ujumbe sio kweli. They are tools used by abusers to break spirits and continue abuse. Wao ni zana zinazotumiwa na abusers kuvunja roho na kuendelea kunyanyaswa. To start loving yourself you need to make a list of your assets. Kuanza upendo mwenyewe unataka kutengeneza orodha ya mali yako. On the top of the list put your finest assets, particularly the unrenewable ones. Juu ya orodha ya kuweka mali yako unono, hasa wale unrenewable. Is virginity still among them? more Je, bado ubikira kati yao? zaidi

I tshitshi limnandi itshitshi limnandi njengoshukela Mimi tshitshi limnandi itshitshi limnandi njengoshukela
(a virgin is sweet, a virgin is sugar sweet) (A bikira ni tamu, ni bikira sukari tamu)

Johnny Clegg & Juluka - Tatazela 1997 Johnny Clegg & Juluka - Tatazela 1997

(on You Tube) (Juu ya You Tube)
Lyrics Lyrics

Love Is Just A Dream (Tatazela) Upendo ni Tu A Dream (Tatazela)

Reason # 8 Sababu # 8
Be patient, know how to become top apple. Kuwa na subira, mnajua kuwa juu apple.

“Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. "Wanawake ni kama apples juu ya miti, walio bora ni juu ya mti. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Watu hawataki kufikia kwa faida ya wale kwa sababu ni hofu ya kuanguka na hawataki kupata madhara. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. Badala yake, kupata tu iliyooza apples kutoka ardhi ambayo si mazuri lakini rahisi. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”- Author unknown, but sounds sexist. Kwa hiyo, kwa apples saa ya juu kufikiria kitu ni sawa na wao, wakati katika hali halisi ni ajabu pamoja. Wao tu kusubiri haki kwa mtu kuja, ambaye ni jasiri kutosha kupanda njia yote juu ya sababu thamani ubora ". - haijulikani Author, lakini sauti inayodunisha wanawake. Why not to add:  “Men are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. Nini kuongeza: "Wanaume ni kama apples na katika miti, wale zaidi ni juu ya mti. The women don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Ya wanawake hawataki kufikia kwa faida ya wale kwa sababu ni hofu ya kuanguka na hawataki kupata madhara. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. Badala yake, kupata tu iliyooza apples kutoka ardhi ambayo si mazuri lakini rahisi. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. Kwa hiyo, kwa apples saa ya juu kufikiria kitu ni sawa na wao, wakati katika hali halisi ni ajabu. They just have to wait for the right woman to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.” more Wao tu kusubiri kwa haki mwanamke kuja pamoja, yule shujaa wa kutosha kupanda njia yote juu ya sababu thamani quality ". zaidi

I haven't been married yet. Mimi si ndoa bado. No wonder I'm still a virgin. Si ajabu bado mimi bikira.

St. Valentine Patron Saint of Virgins until Marriage St Valentine rafiki Saint ya Wasichana hadi Ndoa
Patron Saint of Young People, Love, Affianced Couples, Happy Marriages Rafiki Saint ya Watu Young, Upendo, wawili Affianced, Ndoa Happy

Valentinus was a holy priest in Rome, who assisted the martyrs in the persecution under Emperor Claudius II. Valentinus alikuwa kuhani takatifu katika Roma, ambaye anasaidiwa Mashahidi katika mateso chini ya Kaisari Claudius II. Since he was caught marrying Christian couples and aiding any Christians who were being persecuted under Emperor Claudius in Rome, when helping them was considered a crime, Valentinus was arrested and imprisoned. Kwa vile yeye alikuwa hawakupata kuoa wawili kikristo na kusaidia Wakristo wowote ambao walikuwa tukidhulumiwa chini ya Kaisari Claudius katika Roma, wakati kuwasaidia alidhaniwa uhalifu, Valentinus alikamatwa na kufungwa. Claudius took a liking to this prisoner - until Valentinus made a strategic error: he tried to convert the Emperor - whereupon this priest was condemned to death. Claudius alichukua liking na mfungwa hii - mpaka Valentinus alifanya makosa ya kimkakati: alijaribu kubadili wa Emperor - ambapo kuhani hii ilikuwa hukumu ya kifo. He was beaten with clubs and stoned; when that didn't do it, he was beheaded outside the Flaminian Gate circa 269. Yeye alipigwa kwa marungu na mawe, wakati huo, si kufanya hivyo, alikuwa binti nje ya lango Flaminian circa ya 269. While awaiting his execution, Valentinus restored the sight of his jailer's blind daughter. Wakati wanasubiri utekelezaji wake, Valentinus kurejeshwa mbele ya kipofu wa gereza wa binti yake. On the eve of his death, he penned a farewell note to the jailer's daughter, signing it, "From your Valentine." Katika usiku wa kifo chake, penned a note kuaga gereza ya bintiye, kuweka saini yake, "Kutoka kwa Valentine wako."

Reason # 9 Sababu # 9
Be steadfast,  know how to be faithful Kuwa imara, kujua jinsi ya kuwa waaminifu
to your past, present and future own self . ya zamani, ya sasa na ya baadaye yako mwenyewe.

The primordial tradition of celebrating women as virgins has been most impressively restored to humanity in 1984 by His Majesty Goodwill Zwelithini kaBhekuzulu, the reigning king of the Zulu nation. Mapokeo primordial maadhimisho wanawake kama wanawali imekuwa impressively wengi kurejeshwa kwa binadamu katika 1984 na utukufu wake Zwelithini kaBhekuzulu ukarimu, mfalme regerande wa taifa la Wazulu. The event was started about 200 years ago during the reign of King Shaka Zulu and was stopped in 1879 when King Cetshwayo was arrested by British colonialists. tukio hilo na kuanza karibu miaka 200 iliyopita wakati wa utawala wa mfalme Shaka Zulu na alikuwa kusimamishwa katika 1879 wakati Mfalme Cetshwayo alikamatwa na wakoloni wa Uingereza. As the custodian of Zulu traditions and customs, King Zwelithini has revived cultural functions such as the Umhlanga, the colourful and symbolic reed dance ceremony helping the girls to preserve their virginity until they get married. Kama mlinzi wa mila na desturi Zulu, Mfalme Zwelithini ina kazi ilifufuka utamaduni kama vile Umhlanga, ya rangi na ishara mwanzi ngoma sherehe ya kusaidia watoto wa kike na kuhifadhi ubikira wao hadi kuoana. Once a year, during the second week of September, tens of thousands of virgins travel to the Zulu nation's royal residence at KwaNyokeni Palace in Nongoma to take part in the Royal Reed Dance festival (Umkhosi woMhlanga in the Zulu language).  The girls must pass a virginity test to attend. Intense counseling sessions are held on the Friday and Saturday morning where senior women from the Royal House and the community counsel the young girls on Zulu traditional values, the do's and don'ts for young women, and how to deal with rape, which is at epidemic levels in South Africa. Mara moja kwa mwaka, wakati wa wiki ya pili ya Septemba, makumi ya maelfu ya wasichana kusafiri kwa Zulu wa taifa wa kifalme makazi ya saa KwaNyokeni Palace katika Nongoma ya kushiriki katika Reed Dance tamasha Royal (Umkhosi woMhlanga katika lugha ya Kizulu) kupita. Wasichana lazima mtihani ubikira kuhudhuria makali. vikao vya ushauri ni uliofanyika tarehe ya Ijumaa na Jumamosi asubuhi ambapo wanawake mwandamizi kutoka Nyumba Royal na mpango wa jamii ya wasichana wadogo juu ya jadi maadili Zulu, kwa nini na don'ts kwa wanawake vijana, na jinsi ya kushughulikia pamoja na ubakaji, ambao ni wa viwango vya ugonjwa nchini Afrika Kusini. The main attraction of the ceremony is the presentation of the reeds by maidens to the King. Kivutio kuu ya sherehe ni presentation ya Matete kwa wanawali kwa Mfalme. Maidens in traditional regalia take turns in dancing in a variety of styles in front of the King. Wanawali katika regalia jadi kuchukua zamu ya kucheza katika aina mbalimbali za mitindo mbele ya Mfalme. This has a historical and symbolic significance in that it marks the contribution made by maidens in building the nation. Hii ina maana na mifano ya kihistoria kwa kuwa alama ya mchango yaliyotolewa na wanawali katika ujenzi wa taifa. The girls practice this ritual on their own free will and are proud to do so.  Each maiden carries a reed which has been cut by the riverbed and it symbolizes the power that is vested in nature. Mazoezi ya wasichana sherehe hii mwenyewe hiari yao na ni fahari kwa kufanya hivyo Maiden. Kila hubeba mwanzi ambayo imekuwa kukata na riverbed na ni mfano wa nguvu kwamba pengine ni katika maumbile. It is believed that if a young woman who is not a virgin takes part in the ceremony, her reed breaks, which embarrasses her in front of the assembled guests and her parents. Ni imani kuwa kama mwanamke kijana ambaye siyo bikira inachukua sehemu katika sherehe, mwanzi mapumziko yake, ambayo embarrasses yake mbele ya mkutano wageni na wazazi wake. If the reeds do break, girls defend themselves by saying that it has been broken by the wind. Kama Matete kufanya mapumziko, wasichana kujitetea kwa kusema kwamba imekuwa kuvunjwa na upepo.

In recognition of their contribution to sustainable human development the Zulu virgins and their leaders should be praised worldwide. Kwa kutambua mchango wao kwa maendeleo endelevu ya binadamu Zulu mabikira na viongozi wao wanapaswa kusifiwa duniani kote. Therefore, Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union declared ALL VIRGINS' DAY which is a feast celebrated in early September in honour of all the virgins, known and unknown. Ngiyabonga! Kwa hiyo, Wasichana hadi Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya habari zote Wasichana 'Siku ambayo ni sikukuu sherehe katika Septemba mapema kwa heshima ya wasichana wote, tunajua na haijulikani. Ngiyabonga! (means Thank you! in isiZulu, the language of the Zulu people). more (Maana yake Asante! Katika isiZulu, lugha ya Kizulu watu). zaidi

Virginity. Ubikira. The essence of adolescence. Kiini cha ujana.


ALL VIRGINS' DAY Wanawali WOTE 'SIKU
early September mapema Septemba

The Zulu Kings Reed Dance at eNyokeni Palace, uMkhosi woMhlanga early September The Zulu Kings Reed Dance saa eNyokeni Palace, uMkhosi woMhlanga mapema Septemba

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Reason # 10 Sababu # 10
Be distinct, know the difference. Kuwa tofauti, kujua tofauti.

Virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse  Sexual intercourse (also called coitus, or copulation) is reproductive act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract. Bikira ni mtu ambaye hajawahi kufanya ngono ngono ngono (pia huitwa coitus, au copulation) ni hatua ya uzazi ambapo male organ inaingia uzazi wa kike njia ya uzazi. If the reproductive act is complete, sperm cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process fertilizing the female egg and forming a new organism.  Sexual intercourse is sex, but "sex" is not limited to intercourse; not even limited, in fact, to genital activities. Kama kitendo uzazi ni kamilifu, seli manii ni kupitishwa kutoka male mwili ndani ya kike, katika mchakato fertilizing ya yai kike na kutengeneza ya viumbe mwezi wa kijinsia. Ngono ni ngono, lakini "kufanya mapenzi", si mdogo wa ngono, hata kidogo , kwa kweli, kwa shughuli za uzazi. In reality, "sex" describes a huge range of activities. Katika hali halisi, "kufanya mapenzi" inaelezea mkubwa wa shughuli mbalimbali. This is half of a dialectic: many things can be sex because sex has whatever meaning we experience moment by moment; and sex has an infinite range of meanings because the scope of activities that can properly be called sexual is so vast.”  One of the best-known sound bites of Bill Clinton's presidency was denial: “I did not have sexual relations with that woman”. Hii ni nusu ya dialectic: mambo mengi yanaweza kuwa ngono kwa sababu ngono ina maana sisi kila wakati na sasa uzoefu na jinsia ina mbalimbali usio wa maana kwa sababu ya upeo wa shughuli ambazo zinaweza vizuri kuitwa kingono ni mkubwa. "Moja ya bora kujulikana sound kuumwa ya urais wa Bill Clinton alikuwa kunyimwa: "sikuwa na mahusiano ya kingono na mwanamke." Clinton later stated that he believed the agreed-upon definition of sexual relations excluded his receiving oral sex. Clinton baadaye alisema kwamba aliamini walikubaliana-juu ya ufafanuzi wa mahusiano ya kingono Hakuna kupokea yake ngono ya mdomo. NB. NB. All penetrative sex (where the penis enters the vagina, mouth, or anus) carries risk of STIs for both, lessened to some extent by condoms. Penetrative jinsia zote (ambapo uume kuingia ndani ya uke, mdomo, mkundu au) hubeba hatari ya magonjwa ya zinaa kwa wote wawili, lessened kwa kiasi fulani na kondomu. There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity with one exception, which is presence of hymen at the opening of the vagina. Hakuna dalili ya matibabu ubikira na dalili kiume au wa kike wa kwa moja tofauti, ambayo ni uwepo wa kizinda katika ufunguzi wa uke. The hymen is a body part, also known as virginal membrane, it is a tight or loose and flexible rim, fringe of tissue around the vaginal opening that partly covers the entrance to the vagina of a virgin. kizinda ni sehemu ya mwili, pia inajulikana kama utando Bikira, ni au huru na flexibla mdomo tight, pindo ya tishu kuzunguka uke ufunguzi ya kwamba inashughulikia sehemu ya mlango wa uke na bikira. While the professionally detected presence of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity, the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin.  An innocent, pure, chaste virgin can be robbed of her virginity and remain innocent, pure and chaste. Wakati wanaona mbele kitaaluma wa aina fulani ya kizinda intact inaonyesha ubikira, kukosekana kwa moja ni dhahiri si ushahidi wa mwanamke si bikira safi. Asiye na hatia,, bikira safi wanaweza kuwa kuiba wa ubikira yake na kubaki wasio na hatia, safi na safi. However virgins rarely are asexual. Hata hivyo ni mara chache wanawali asexual. Sexually active virgins have nothing to do with innocence, purity, chastity but still preserve their virginity. Kujamiiana na wasichana hawana kazi ya kufanya na hatia, usafi, usafi wa moyo lakini bado kuhifadhi ubikira wao. Until marriage. Mpaka ndoa. If lucky. Kama bahati. And wise. more Na busara. zaidi

There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity Hakuna dalili ya matibabu na dalili ya ubikira wa kiume au wa kike
with one exception, which is presence of hymen at the opening of the vagina. isipokuwa kwa moja, ambayo ni uwepo wa kizinda katika ufunguzi wa uke.
While the professionally detected presence Wakati wanaona mbele kitaaluma
of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity, wa aina fulani ya kizinda intact inaonyesha ubikira,
the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin. bila ya mtu ni dhahiri si ushahidi mwanamke si bikira.
Dr Halat's arguments against non-professional virginity testing. Dr Halat ya hoja dhidi ya-mtaalamu kupima ubikira zisizo.

A bikira. Is his/her V-card fraudulent or genuine? Ni yake / zake V-kadi ulaghai au kweli?

A fraud is an intentional deception made for personal gain. udanganyifu A ni udanganyifu kukusudia kwa ajili ya faida binafsi.

A virgin A bikira

Virginity Ubikira

Reason # 11 Sababu # 11
Be winner, know better than losers. Kuwa mshindi, mnajua zaidi khasiri.

There are many ways to sluttify virgins. Kuna njia nyingi za sluttify mabikira. A gang rape to make an abducted virgin ready for prostitution is the way generally considered most outrageous. A ubakaji genge kufanya kutekwa nyara na mchumba tayari kwa ajili ya ukahaba ni njia ya kawaida kuzingatiwa zaidi outrageous. The rape victim's coping mechanisms rarely make the trauma bearable. Mwathirika wa ubakaji mara chache kufanya utaratibu wa kukabiliana Dhiki ya bearable. Even drugs, alcohol and forced sex fail to erase memories of normal life and morals. Hata madawa ya kulevya, pombe na kulazimishwa ngono kushindwa kufuta kumbukumbu ya maisha ya kawaida na maadili. Logically, virgins coerced into prostitution are prostitutes but not sluts. Mantiki, wasichana kushurutishwa katika ukahaba ni malaya lakini sluts. The other pole of the sluttification process is linked to incest. pole nyingine ya mchakato sluttification ni wanaohusishwa na kufanya mapenzi na kahaba. There are two kinds of incest: direct incest, which is overt sexual activity between family members other than spouses; and indirect incest, the providing of children by their parents to others in order for them to be sexually abused. Kuna aina mbili za kufanya mapenzi na kahaba: kufanya mapenzi na kahaba moja kwa moja, ambayo ni shughuli overt ngono kati ya wanachama wa familia nyingine zaidi ya wanandoa, na kufanya mapenzi na kahaba moja kwa moja, ya kutoa ya watoto na wazazi wao kwa wengine ili wawe waliodhalilishwa kijinsia. Parents and guardians who allow their child to be abused by other family members, friends, acquaintances, caretakers or teachers, as well as by entertainment industry products, schooling system, and public space exhibitions and events, are as much responsible for ruined lives as those who commit direct incest. Thus parents and guardians are guilty of premature and therefore forced sexualization of their young ones, who become addicted to sexual gratification offered and/or witnessed by paedophiliacs.  Too early and unnecessarily discovered power of sexual pleasure undermines the age-appropriate education and formation, opens wide the gates to promiscuity, pornography, drugs, alcohol, gambling, shopping and many other deadly addictions. Wazazi na walezi ambao kuruhusu watoto wao kuwa ananyanyaswa na familia nyingine, rafiki, marafiki, caretakers au walimu, pamoja na sekta ya bidhaa za burudani, mfumo wa elimu, na nafasi ya maonyesho ya umma na matukio, ni kama wajibu wa maisha kiasi vikaharibika kama wale ambaye kufanya moja kwa moja kufanya mapenzi na kahaba undergräver. hivyo wazazi na walezi wana hatia ya mapema na hivyo kulazimika sexualization vijana wao wa wadogo, ambao kuwa addicted ngono na gratification zinazotolewa na / au ushahidi kwa paedophiliacs. sana kugundua mapema na onödan nguvu kingono wa matakwa ya umri sahihi elimu na malezi, kufungua milango kwa upana promiscuity, pornography madawa ya kulevya, pombe, kamari, ununuzi na wengine wengi ulevi mauti. Addicts are easy to manipulate. Kulevya ni rahisi kuendesha. This is why sluttification from the cradle is so eagerly supported by corrupted elites and tycoons. Hii ni kwa nini sluttification kutoka utoto ni hivyo kwa shauku mkono na wasomi waovu na tycoons. Along with discovering sexual gratification other rewards in exchange for sexual favours are desired. Pamoja na kugundua gratification ngono tuzo nyingine badala ya neema ya ngono ni taka. There are entertainments, gifts, money. Kuna entertainments, zawadi, fedha. Not knowingly a sluttified virgin turns into an underage prostitute. Si wanajua kuwa sluttified bikira anarudi ndani ya malaya underage. In such an destructive environment, more sooner than later a virgin loses his or her virginity. Katika uharibifu wa mazingira hayo, mapema zaidi kuliko baadaye kupoteza bikira au wake ubikira wake. A prematurely deflorated child or adolescent becomes a community role model, noxious to human health and well-being, infinitely magnified by mass media scorn for virgins waiting until marriage. A deflorated mtoto mapema au vijana kuwa jukumu jamii mfano, noxious kwa afya ya binadamu na ustawi, infinitely akasifiwa na vyombo vya habari kwa dharau kwa wasichana kusubiri mpaka ndoa. These virgins who enjoyed a privilege of having good parents and guardians and were efficiently protected from forced sexualization until maturity, and their virginity hasn't been robbed nor stolen, can finally decide if they want to lose or offer their virginity. more Hawa wasichana ambao walifurahia haki ya kuwa na wazazi na walezi bora na walikuwa ufanisi ulinzi kutoka sexualization kulazimishwa mpaka kukomaa, na ubikira yao haijawahi kuiba au kuibiwa, hatimaye kuamua kama wanataka kupoteza au kutoa ubikira wao. zaidi

WORLD DAY DUNIANI SIKU
FOR THE PREVENTION KINGA YA YA
OF CHILD ABUSE ZA unyanyasaji wa watoto
19th November 19 Novemba

Fyah Muma (Queen Ifrica): Fyah Muma (Malkia Ifrica):
My music is music of upliftment. music yangu ni muziki wa upliftment.
It is music that teaches. Ni muziki hufundisha. It shows you how not to complain, Inaonyesha jinsi si kulalamika,
but to seek solutions for yourself lakini kwa kutafuta ufumbuzi kwa mwenyewe

Daddy Daddy
(on You Tube) (Juu ya You Tube)

lyrics lyrics

Reason # 12 Sababu # 12
Be supported, know how to find a helping hand. Kusaidiwa, kujua jinsi ya kupata mkono kusaidia.

The human being can hardly live on without friends. Ya mwanadamu anaweza kuishi bila vigumu marafiki. If they are people of goodwill, your friends will offer you moral and psychological support on your way from the family you were born and grown up in to the family you will establish with your future spouse. Kama wao ni watu wa ukarimu, marafiki wako wewe maadili na kutoa msaada wa kisaikolojia kwa njia yako kutoka kwa familia uliyozaliwa na mzima ndani ya familia wewe kuanzisha na baadaye mwenzi wako. What if, at the end of the day, your friends you relied on prove malicious or simply stupid? Je, iwapo, mwisho wa siku, rafiki yako walitegemea katika kuthibitisha malicious au tu wajinga? Never forget the famous Latin phrase "Multi multa, nemo omnia novit (many know many things; no one knows everything)" and in case you are forced by your best friends to do something you really hate, just say “no” and consult someone else. Kamwe kusahau msemo maarufu wa Kilatini "Multi multa, Nemo Omnia novit (wengi kujua mambo mengi, hakuna mtu anajua kila kitu)" na ikiwa ni kulazimishwa kwa rafiki yako bora kufanya kitu kwa kweli chuki tu kusema "hapana" na kushauriana mtu mwingine. Whom? Nani? Your priest or imam, your family member, or any other person of strong opinions you can trust with all your secrets and you don't risk being rejected or exploited. Mkuu wako au imam, familia yako mwanachama, au mtu mwingine wa maoni kali unaweza kuaminiana na siri yako yote na huna hatari ya kukataliwa au kunyonywa. You are not alone! Wewe si peke yake! Find information on the internet to see how many people globally share exactly the same challenge you have. Kupata habari juu ya mtandao kuona jinsi watu wengi duniani hasa sehemu ya changamoto hiyo wewe. They share your challenges and they get contradictory advice. Wanashiriki changamoto yako na kupata ushauri motstridiga. Much of the advice does not fit to your ideals, beliefs and ethics, much is just full of rudeness, contempt, trickery and other forms of dignity violation. Kubwa ya ushauri, hana fit kwa maadili yako, imani na maadili, ni kiasi kamili ya rudeness, dharau, hila na aina nyingine ya ukiukaji wa hadhi. Finally you would like to discuss your challenges in a supportive group of peers. Mwisho ungependa kujadili changamoto yako katika kuunga mkono kundi la rika. This is what Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union is created for. more Hii ni nini Wasichana hadi Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya ni Muumba kwa. zaidi

United we stand, divided we fall Umoja wa sisi kusimama, umegawanyika sisi kuanguka

Social networking Mitandao ya kijamii

Dr Halat's arguments against non-professional virginity testing Dr Halat ya hoja dhidi ya-mtaalamu ubikira kupima yasiyo

(A) Virginity testing (A) kupima ubikira

save the above poster (pdf ) ila bango hapo juu (pdf)

All women are born with a hymen. wanawake wote ni kuzaliwa kwa kizinda a.

A congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare A kutokuwepo congenital ya kipekee kizinda hutokea, hivyo ni nadra sana

as a part of severe genital kama sehemu ya kali uzazi   malformations: kusababisha ulemavu:

Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina Congenital Q52.0 bila ya uke

Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva Congenital Q52.7 bila ya vulva

International Statistical Classification of Diseases Takwimu ya kimataifa Ainisho ya Magonjwa

and Related Health Problems Matatizo ya Afya na Related

10th Revision Version for 2007 ( ICD -10 ) 10 Marekebisho safi kwa ajili ya 2007 (ICD -10)

Chapter XVII: Sura ya XVII:

Congenital malformations, deformations and Congenital inaweza kusababisha ulemavu, na deformations

chromosomal abnormalities (Q00-Q99) chromosomal abnormalities (Q00-Q99)

: Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina : Q52.0 Congenital bila ya uke

: Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva : Q52.7 Congenital bila ya vulva

There are many different types of hymens. Kuna aina nyingi za vizinda.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymens Mfano tornable / stretchable vizinda

  can be torn with finger(s), object(s), and penis(es) unaweza kuwa na Sila na kidole (s), kifaa (s), na uume (es)

and if torn they remain torn and present notches na ikiwa imechanwa wao kubaki na Sila na sasa notches   / clefts / Clefts

or they heal with scars hardly detectable au kuponya na makovu detectable vigumu

without specialist testing techniques. bila mtaalamu wa kupima mbinu.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymen Mfano tornable / stretchable kizinda

Two types of hymens that stand at opposite poles Mbili aina ya vizinda kuwa imara katika nguzo kinyume

as regards their value in professional virginity testing kwa upande wa thamani yao katika kupima ubikira mtaalamu

are described below. ni ilivyoelezwa hapo chini.

Typical Kawaida  elastic kizinda

can be stretched with fingers(s), object(s), and penis(es) unaweza kuwa aliweka kwa vidole (s), kifaa (s), na uume (es)

and regains its original shape sooner or later after. regains awali na sura yake mapema au baadaye baada ya.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a finger or an object Elastic kukaza mwendo kizinda kwa kidole au kifaa

does not end virginity. haina mwisho ubikira.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a penis ends virginity. Elastic kukaza mwendo kizinda kwa uume wa mwisho ubikira.

Because the elastic hymen regains it shape sooner or later after stretching(s) Kwa sababu ya kizinda elastic regains sura yake mapema au baadaye baada ya kukaza mwendo (s)

the regular medical examination results are inconclusive, kitibabu wa mara kwa mara ni inconclusive matokeo,

some specialist testing techniques are available though. baadhi ya kupima mtaalamu mbinu za kutosha ingawa.

Typical Kawaidaelastic hymen elastic kizinda

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen Udanganyifu-ushahidi kizinda - halat kizinda

has sieve openings or a partitioned opening, ina fursa ungo au kufungua partitioned,

and if found on medical examination is an indisputable proof of virginity. na kama kupatikana kwenye uchunguzi wa kitibabu ni ushahidi indisputable ya ubikira.

Like any other type of hymen the halat hymen Kama ilivyo kwa aina yoyote nyingine ya kizinda halat kizinda

can be torn with a finger, object, and penis. unaweza kuwa na Sila na kidole kitu,, na uume.

Tearing the halat hymen with a penis ends virginity. Akamtikisatikisa halat kizinda kwa uume wa mwisho ubikira.

Tearing the halat hymen with a finger or an object Akamtikisatikisa halat kizinda kwa kidole au kifaa

does not end virginity but deprives the virgin haina mwisho ubikira lakini bikira deprives

of her indisputable proof of virginity. ya indisputable ushahidi wake wa ubikira.

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen Udanganyifu-ushahidi kizinda - halat kizinda

The imperforate, cribriform, and septate hymens frequencies of occurrence differ considerably due to variety of interrelated genetic and environmental factors influencing the reproductive system development. Kizinda kisicho na tundu lolote, Kizinda chenye tundu dogo sana, Kizinda chenye tishu za ziada na kufanya matundu frekvenser ya tukio tofauti mno kutokana na aina ya maumbile na mazingira sababu interrelated ushawishi mfumo wa uzazi maendeleo. The global average estimated from scarce medical evidence could range from 3 % to 4 %. Makadirio ya wastani wa kimataifa kutoka matibabu ushahidi chache inaweza mbalimbali kutoka 3% hadi 4%. In some populations the imperforate hymen can be diagnosed in 0.1 % of newborns and requires a small surgical intervention as soon as possible after birth to enable undisturbed development of the genital tract and save the girl from unnecessary suffering and embarrassment in case the surgery would be postponed until she develops signs and symptoms of hematocolpos during puberty. Katika baadhi ya wakazi wa Kizinda kisicho na tundu lolote unaweza kuwa wametambuliwa kwa 0.1% ya watoto wanaozaliwa na inahitaji ndogo kirurgiska kuingilia haraka iwezekanavyo baada ya kuzaliwa ili kuwezesha maendeleo undisturbed ya uzazi na njia ya kuokoa msichana kutoka mateso visivyo muhimu na aibu katika kesi ya upasuaji itakuwa Kuahirishwa mpaka yeye yanaendelea ishara na dalili za hematocolpos wakati wa kubalehe. If the surgery is properly done and well documented, the patient reaching her marriageable age enjoys the same opportunities of offering her husband a fraud-free hymen as other halat hymen gifted women do. Kama ni vizuri upasuaji kufanyika na pia kumbukumbu, mgonjwa marriageable kufikia umri wake anafurahia fursa sawa ya sadaka ya mume wake wa-bure kizinda udanganyifu kama halat kizinda nyingine vipawa wanawake kufanya.

The hymen Kizinda

Virginity testing Kupima ubikira

(B) Genital mutilation (B) Genital tohara

Do It Yourself: Blood Spurting Knife Wound Do It Yourself: Damu Spurting kisu Jeraha

This cutting off is NOT real Hii mbali kukata si kweli

see here how to fake a loss of a body organ angalia hapa jinsi ya bandia hasara ya mwili Kamati

(C) Masturbation (C) Punyeto

(D) Condom use (D) matumizi ya kondomu
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(E) HPV Vaccination (E) HPV Vaccination
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(F) Self examination (F) Self mtihani
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(G) Kegel exercise (G) Kegel zoezi
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(H) Control of sexuality (H) Udhibiti wa kujamiiana

The three dams strategy of control of sexuality Mabwawa ya tatu mkakati wa kudhibiti ya kujamiiana

Rivers of life before junction. Mito ya maisha kabla ya Junction.

Innocence (what is sex?) Hatia (nini ngono?)

Purity (no sex) Usafi (hakuna ngono)

Prudence (no direct contact sex) Prudence (hakuna mawasiliano ya moja kwa moja ngono)

Virginity (no penis -  in -  vagina sex). Ubikira (hakuna uume - katika - uke ngono).

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(B) Genital mutilation (B) Genital tohara
  
(C) Masturbation (C) Punyeto

(D) Condom use (D) matumizi ya kondomu
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(E) HPV Vaccination (E) HPV Vaccination
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(F) Self examination (F) Self mtihani
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(G) Kegel exercise (G) Kegel zoezi
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(H) Control of sexuality (H) Udhibiti wa kujamiiana

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VIRGINITY MATTERS ubikira ni muhimu! slogan supported by an effective reward system action for virginity protection and by protest against abuse, torture and humiliation of virg
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Shy? Aibu? Show, Don't Tell Kuonyesha, Je, si Waambie

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Virgins until MarriageWanawali mpaka Ndoa

- Civil Society - Civil Society   Organization Shirika

of the African Union wa Umoja wa Afrika

and the European Union na Umoja wa Ulaya

"Virgins until marriage" "Wanawali mpaka Ndoa"
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Virginity Magazine Ubikira Magazine

The International Society Jumuiya ya Kimataifa
for the Scientific Study of Virginity cha Utafiti wa kisayansi wa ubikira

Acta Virginologica Acta Virginologica